
Some mornings I write an email, read it back, and think, “Why bother?”
It’s not clever. It won’t change anyone’s life. It’s just me, telling my readers about a small thing I noticed.
For years, I let that thought win. I’d delete the email and wait for a better one.
The better one rarely showed up.
Here’s what took me far too long to learn.
The email you’re waiting to feel proud of isn’t coming today. Probably not this week either.
While you wait for it, your readers forget you exist. Not because they don’t like you — they’re just busy, and a hundred other things are shouting for their attention.
The small, ordinary email — the one you almost don’t send — is the one that keeps you in their inbox.
And staying in the inbox is the whole game.
I know “send a boring email” isn’t the advice you usually see online.
The internet wants you to go viral. Be clever. Blow up.
But here’s the unglamorous truth:
You don’t need to be brilliant every Thursday. You just need to show up every Thursday.
Most of my emails are nothing special.
I tell people about a tool I use and love. If there’s an affiliate link, I say so — plainly. (Promote things you actually use, and you never have to fake the enthusiasm.)
Sometimes I write about a mistake I made. Sometimes about my cat, Nefnef, judging me from the windowsill while I work.
None of it is a masterpiece. All of it does the same quiet job: it reminds my readers that a real person is on the other end.
You already know how this goes if you’ve read me before.
Motivation writes the exciting emails — the ones you’re itching to send. Habit sends the boring ones on the mornings you’d rather do anything else.
The boring ones are the ones that pay the bills.
So the next time you look at a small, unremarkable email and think “why bother”…
Send it anyway.
If you’d like more on writing, list building, and doing this the honest way, you can get my free newsletter, “Life on Your Terms,” in your inbox every Thursday.
Britt Malka